Meeting someone on a dating site requires you to quickly establish frequent contact if you want to get to know the person and create a bond with them. Whether the communication is oral through phone exchanges or written through text messages, there are some essential rules to consider in order to succeed in your relationship. In this article, I propose 10 text messages to send at the very beginning on a dating site. But first, here are a few tips on how to write a good text message to the one you love.
Did you say sms ? Writing text messages has become very common. It is the preferred form of communication between people. Whether the relationship is professional, friendly or romantic, you will tend to choose writing over calling. Why text rather than call? We talk less by phone and we write more and more text messages. Texting is easier, faster. It has become the equivalent of a note left on the kitchen table or scribbled quickly. It may be common in everyday life but if you pay special attention to it then it takes on a different value. It is not a question of making each text a romantic letter worthy of a Victor Hugo for example. However, when it comes to texting our new partner or life partner, some text messages can contain more depth.
Here are some essential rules for writing a text message to the one you love:
- Take more than 5 minutes to write it, proofread it and send it. Don't write your text message while doing something else. This time is crucial to writing an authentic text message.
- Pay attention: if you take a real break from writing that love note, put your full attention into writing it too. This will make it easier for ideas to come to you, and you will be connected to your feelings for that person.
- Take care of the text: It is certain that if your text is full of mistakes, without any punctuation, you will quickly lose the interest of the person who will read it. It's not about writing in the language of Shakespeare or making no mistakes. We all have our own skills in this area. However, avoid abbreviations, look up the spelling of words you are unsure about. The more polished your text message is, the more likely it is to get real attention from your partner.
- A touch of originality: Writing a text message these days is common, but if you add an original, daring touch, it's even better. For that, you can indeed put all your energy through the words and phrases chosen, but you can also add a photo, a soundtrack to your sending. Be authentic, unique, unexpected!
Once you have fixed your attention in the writing of this text message, now you have to go into the invention and this is where some people will feel deprived. You lack ideas and you are not sure what to write to your lover especially when you are at the very beginning of the relationship.
10 ideas of SMS to send at the very beginning on a dating site
When you meet a single person on a dating application, chances are you will exchange phone numbers very quickly. Most of the exchanges will be done by sms. What message to send to show your interest? Flirting with your new partner is also about respectful and cute seduction. If you want to build a love relationship in trust, sms must offer a climate of security between you two.
Morning and evening text messages
Good morning, I hope you are well. I wish you a nice day. I'm thinking of you.
Good evening, I hope your day went well. I have been thinking about you all day.
Interesting text message
What are you passionate about? What do you like in life?
Tender text message
You make me smile all day. All my thoughts are for you. I have a lot of tenderness for you.
Confidence text message
Tell me your biggest secret. Confide in me, I will listen to you and keep it a secret.
Sms of references
This song, this text, this movie made me think of you.
Compliments text message
You are really a special person. I can't wait to get to know you better and to experience more moments, more sharing with you.
Romantic text message
I fell in love with you at first sight, now it's something else that is born: love. I want to know you more and to conjugate our hearts.
Couple's text messages
Spending time together is what I want. That we can project ourselves together, dream of our life as a couple.
Intimate text messages
When I write to you, I can hear my heart beating so fast. My body is getting closer to yours and I want to kiss you and more.
Dating text messages
When will we see each other next? How do you want to have our next dinner, just the two of us? In a restaurant or at my place?
These 10 sms are a possible entry to establish your budding or under construction relationship on the dating site. You can use them as inspiration or create your own that will fit your current situation.
