Talking about sexuality with an online date is certainly delicate but it will be unavoidable if you want to leave the friendzone at some point. It's not a question of approaching sexuality from a perverse angle but rather from a respectful dimension. At what point can you feel that it is time to switch from friendship to intimacy? How to talk about sexuality with a partner on a dating site?At the beginning of a relationship on a dating site, talking about love can take some time. It implies having confidence in yourself and in the other person.
As in all relationships, whether friendly or romantic, trust is necessary to create a faithful, solid and lasting bond. These initial relational foundations will determine the nature of the relationship. After having been in the complicit, friendly link, the experiences will cross and then will come the more personal confidences. These different stages will allow you to move towards more intimacy.
How to go towards this intimacy on a dating site?
The first advice is to establish a fluid communication from the beginning with the partner on the dating site. Once this communication will be habitual, installed, you will undoubtedly be able to go towards more depth.
Talking about your daily life, what you like, your hobbies with a dose of humor will open the arms to a more complicit relationship during the exchanges on dating sites. We can indeed define this moment as being in the friendzone. You consider your partner as a very good friend, a confidant.
Some relationships will remain in this friend zone and will not go further.
The physical attraction, the sexual desire do not appear. Both partners did not feel reciprocally or individually that they could go further with this online relationship. They do not go through the second door to love, which is the one of intimacy.
For other relationships, after having created this complicit link, the need to go towards more intimacy, softness, letting go in sensuality and sexuality will come. Wanting to live a love story with a person on a dating site will necessarily imply this dimension, I would even say this relational connection.
Once the friendzone is over, your respective bodies will feel this inevitable attraction. You will feel the need to discover each other.
For this reason, the first possible way to talk about sexuality is first of all to approach the angle of sensuality by sharing what you feel in your body. Describe those shivers of love.
Sensuality is a tasty encounter between two partners, it is a prelude to sexuality because it invites the pleasure to go further. Sensuality reveals a prelude that every couple should experience before sex.
After describing what you feel, you can go further by talking about this desire to touch the other.
Feeling the call of the skin, the touch of the other person on your body is also a sign and a demonstration of the desire you have for the other person.
If you are far from each other, your imagination will then come into action, or boil over. We all have these memories of touch, of the other's skin against ours. On the other hand, if you are on your first date, touching sexuality with your fingertips and showing this warmth, this invited skin, opens up to a communion of bodies in softness.
Finally, talking about sexuality is also to go into the concrete. Knowing how to approach with the other the more intimate subjects such as preferences and fantasies.
This will allow you to know the universe of love of your partner and to be able to answer it in the will to please him.
Don't be afraid to talk about your sexual orientation and your fantasies because you risk hiding a part of yourself and this weakens the foundations of a couple from the start. It is better to be sincere about who you are and how you like to live your sexuality than to keep it all inside and be disappointed later.
Sexuality will be part of your couple. Putting words that pleasure of the senses, on this connection is essential to build the bond of love. Your previous experiences do not need to be spread out. Talking about sexuality does not mean that you have to convince the other of your performance.
Talking about all these naughty questions with your partner is a way of getting to know each other better, of not having any taboos together. How many couples do not dare to tell each other what they secretly want to experience sexually.
Talking about daily life, what we like, these hobbies with a dose of humor will over the exchanges on dating sites open the arms to a more complicit relationship. We can indeed define this moment as being in the friendzone. You consider your partner as a very good friend, a confidant.
