How to prepare yourself to meet your soulmate on Tandem Effect if you want to build on the real and solid? If you have chosen the Tandem Effect dating site, it is precisely because you want to build on the real, you want to build on the solid.
So start by showing yourself as authentic as possible. You may be afraid to show yourself as you are, you may be afraid of being manipulated if you show yourself as you are. Know that no one has the power to manipulate you unless you let them. Even if you have been hurt in the past, the pain you have felt in some relationships, it is always in the resistance, in not picking up what has happened. Yet, it is only experience to learn who you are more.
Transparency and authenticity on a dating application is always the best thing to do, it's your best card. The more you show yourself as you are, the more you will meet the best person for you. Wearing a mask, playing a character, is a game that becomes very exhausting. Sooner or later, the naturalness comes back, anyway, and it will break the relationship if you have not been honest.
Being real, being you, can only do you so much good and you will be loved for who you are. Give yourself room for error, it's all about learning. Don't try to be the perfect man or woman. Don't look for the ideal man or woman either, it doesn't exist, it's just an illusion created by your mind, a fantasy of your mind.
In reality, there are many people who can suit you. What we call a soul mate, in fact, is certain souls that you have met in other lives and that you have liked. And then, there are many, there are several. The ideal is to build yourself day by day in authenticity, in honesty and in self-respect. It is not the fruit of a fantasy from the mind or of the lack that will feed you.
Give yourself a chance to build on what is real, you will have much more satisfaction.