Attracting the right person to you is more effective in achieving happiness than looking for the right person. You may have already heard of the law of attraction. Everything is cause and effect, which is why you will notice that you will attract to you exactly what you think you deserve. So what do you think of yourself? What values do you think you have? How much do you love yourself? Then, how much do you love your body? You think these questions are not important, think again. As long as you are not aware of your own value, you will not be able to improve the quality of your relationships.
Considering that we always attract to us what we think we are worth, if you look at your past relationships, what do you think you are worth? Don't be discouraged if you don't have a high self-esteem yet. The Effet Tandem dating application will help you to acquire more. Know that every person you meet can help you, teach you something about yourself. This is the ultimate goal of any relationship, to make you grow.
The good news is that you don't have to like yourself 100% before you meet someone. Every relationship is just another experience to find more love from you. Let's say you love yourself at 25%, the person you meet should allow you to increase that percentage gradually. You must always be aware, however, that you reap what you sow, which means that you are always responsible for what you receive, not for the way you receive it, but for the way you react in that situation. Never forget that all these experiences are only there to be opportunities to learn to know yourself more and to love yourself more. That's why it's always the right person you're with right now.
I would like to bring an example to clarify what I mean. There is a friend of mine who wanted to meet his soul mate and he was so afraid of being alone that no matter who came up to him, he just had to say "hello", he was already holding on and was already in love with that person. And soon he was disappointed because he was transforming himself to be loved by that person, becoming what the other person thought he should be and not to remain himself. Until the day he started to make a personal journey, he began to choose himself, to respect himself and to increase his value. This made him meet a lady with whom he had affinities and today they are learning to discover and know each other. Even if they don't have the same needs, it's beautiful to see them developing their roots, quietly but surely.
