When we seek love for ourselves, for others or to be in a relationship, we need a motivation. In the word "motivation", there are two words: motive and action. It is important to know that we need a good motivation.
How do we get motivated? It's a matter of knowing our whys, why we want to be in a relationship. What I suggest is that you make a list of the reasons why you want to be in a relationship and keep this list on hand. Then, when you decide to meet someone, you will simply look at your list of whys and that will be your motivation at that moment.
Often, the question to ask yourself just before making the list of whys is what do I give up if I decide to be in a relationship? Because a lot of times, there are gains to be had by being single. What am I willing to give up by being in a relationship? That too is making a list of whys or what I'm willing to give up. You have your list of whys and then what am I willing to give up to be in a relationship. At that point, it will help you identify your whys. But also identify the emotion behind these whys and the fears that are hidden. So, it is a whole questioning to explore to know. When we are looking for love of ourselves, of others, being in a couple, when we are looking for our motivation to be a couple, it is really to identify our clear, precise and really precise why to really be able to go forward in a relationship.
Simply hoping that you enjoyed this capsule, you will find your why to be in a couple relationship.
